Deep listening : Helper who assist your life.

Abstract

Abstract

           Listening skills are an essential element of human communication that helps to understand each other. Especially when our lives must confront with problems or crises that not only affect the physical condition but also affect the mental health as well. This article aims to present an understanding of the meaning of deep listening skills that are listening at a level of deep feelings and needs. The listeners have the right to choose that they want to listen or not. They must be ready both physically and mentally. Contemplating on what perceived through stories and feelings that expressed through words, tone of voice, facial expressions, and body languages. This understanding comes from the knowledge of experts combined with the knowledges and work experiences in organizing and facilitating the learning process in deep listening of the authors for more than 10 years. Including, the interviews of 6 people in the different professions who have experience in applying deep listening to manage problems in their own lives in terms of the relationship of the couple, relationship with family, dealing with people at work, dealing with various states within one's mind and the inner growth. It also aims to present additional supporting factors both internal and external factors from the interviews as mentioned above to optimize the using of deep listening in various contexts of life.